Hey Everyone!
This week our topic might be a little taboo and not very comfortable to talk about but it needs to be talked about. Sexual intimacy is a very important part of marriage and can bring the couple together and make them feel closer. A lot of teenagers and young single adults nowadays do not believe that saving that special time for marriage. It is just something fun to do with boyfriends and girlfriends and sometimes even a random stranger. We talked in more detail about how men and women are sexually. Men are known to want to have sex more than women. Now remember that is not always true with every relationship. Women like to snuggle and be more emotionally there and men prefer to be more physical. Girls like to be stable in emotional states and boys like to be stable in physical states. Now that can be very hard and maybe even disagree with others because the boy might feel like the girl doesn't love him because she does not want to have sex with him every night. That is why you need to have a conversation with your husband or wife and explain how you are feeling and find a way on how to meet in the middle. But a lot of the time a husband is not just wanting to have sex just to please him, he wants to be close and comfortable next to his wife. Just because a girl does not want to have sex does not mean that she is not interested in him. Girls just don't have those feelings as much as men do every day. Sex should be very sacred and only between a married couple. We were given sex to be able to create children and bring more children to this earth. But now a days the world has changed the meaning of what sex is. Sex is a pleasurable thing to make 2 people feel good but that should not be the main reason of sex. Sex brings children into the world. Men peak sexually at 18 and 19 and women peak at 30 to 34. It is very interesting how different those ages are. It is very important to talk to your spouse about how you feel and any problems or different ways you are feeling. A relationship thrives with communication. The other person cannot read your mind. They will not know how you are feeling unless you share it with them. It is good to talk about these type of things. Another thing as well that isn't fully on this topic but I think is very important is that I do not think that this topic should be very taboo and hard to talk about with others. When I have children of my own I want to be able to talk to my children openly about sex and other " awkward" topics. I do not want my children to look up those questions online and then read false readings and then they get curious and keep reading and looking up more questions. It can be very dangerous. We need to be more open talking about this and be able to educate our children and not let them be alone on learning about these interesting topics about life.
What do you guys think about this topic?
Have a great week and stay safe.
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